I am playing the sims 3 but there are two problems with the family I am playing.

Problem number 1: The traits I choose don't show up properly the oldest daughter is aged up and she has to be edited in CAS to make the traits show up properly.

Problem number 2: One day when the husband went to work he didn't return home, he just went missing.

I don't know how the second problem came around.

But the first one came around when the oldest daughter aged up to child.

Does anyone know how I can solve these problems?